lol. I've always been bi, but as I aged I was getting more interested in cock. I'm not quite ready to say that I'm gay, pussy and swinging still would be a turn on, but I think given the choice, I'd take cock.
I imagine it would be difficult. My wife lost interest after menopause, and I curtailed a lot of my play. I still enjoy sucking a cock, but I don't get as many opportunities now. I really miss seeing her enjoy fucking other men and getting to join, and help.
We had many great time as a group. I quit attending after she died suddenly it was to hard after all the fun we had as a couple. I did return a couple times but it wasn’t the same. And being the only single guy there
I was the only one that was bi. My wife tried bi with a couple that we swapped with often, but it just wasn't her thing. I agree with you about enjoying having sex with men while the wife watches. It was a huge turn on for me to have a cock in my mouth and have my wife taking pictures or rubbing her pussy before joining me. Having a bi group would be ideal. I wish we could have belonged to a group like that.